Thread:Nightlily/@comment-5679696-20170410001951/@comment-4839682-20170410132707

Maybe you shouldn't have butted into the conversation the way you did. Lily felt Lady was being sarcastic, she said her piece about it, and was pretty respectful about it, even acknowledging then attempted to continue the actual conversation at hand. You swooped in accusing her of all kinds of stuff, so I don't see how you can blame her for responding in a more heated way after that.

We can't police tone in text, and we can't tell people how to interpret the statements of others. What I see in this situation, tho, is you starting a fight where it was not necessary, and I find that much more alarming than Lily giving Lady a stern-ish warning over what was probably just a misunderstanding of tone. I'm not even saying you need to come to me with stuff like this, just that an outside opinion is a good way to get some perspective. I think you might be seeing malice where it does not exist, just like I feel Lily might be seeing sarcasm where it does not exist. (I hope that makes sense, it's been a long night at work lol) we all need better methods to handle these misunderstandings