Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-1940463-20130306130752/@comment-4975807-20130315235214

Sonofaphrodite wrote: Killian Jones wrote: 174.92.104.193 wrote: have i ever talked to apple girl NO  why she seems like a bitch. very rude, shes admin , did she create the show NO , i can call anyone i bitch if i feel like it  YOU FOOLISH GIRLS I understand where you are coming from since I've been in your shoes before. There is one particular administrator that I felt was being rude and trying to control things in her own way and I ended up lashing out at her about it, which was a mistake when handling a situation like that. However, one thing I've learned is that you shouldn't call anybody rude and offensive remarks on the forums, even to the administrators because in the end, they really are trying their best to conform to everybody's opinions, and if they honestly weren't, I would guarantee that there would be much less people on this wikia at this moment. I also admit that the message Applegirl posted did come off as a bit condescending and snappish, but perhaps it was not meant to entirely be that way, and since I'm guessing you never met her in real life, you don't know what she could have been going through at that moment. Do some of the administrators need to calm down sometimes and, perhaps, know that sometimes, they act as if it is all about them? Maybe. Is it better to call one of them a "bitch" instead of politely pointing out that how they might be coming off or simply ignore them? No. I just think it is better to avoid an online argument considering this is a wikia, not YouTube. If I did come off as snappish in the post, it was never my intention. Mostly, I was trying to be firm on my stance of exactly *why* Belle's counterpart's page will not be changed, and for what reasons. In the first few days after the Paleyfest panel, I saw multiple people try to change Belle's page to the Lacey name, which had to be rollbacked many times. I wrote what I did in this forum to try and inform people nothing would be changed until either the press release is seen, or the actual episode airing.

I can say I was never angry, but I was slightly weary of people saying it should be taken for a confirmation just because Emilie de Ravin said, "Racy Lacey". I was thinking the press release would be an even better confirmation because of the fact we neither know if her name is just "Lacey" officially, or is it "Lacey French" as some people want to now call her. Each page name follows how a character's actual name is given on the press release. So whether her name will be just "Lacey" or "Lacey French", there is neither confirmation that is what her name will be written as on press release. What Emilie said I take a loose reference that her character's *first* name is "Lacey". What we don't know if the "French" last name is attached to her official name.

Sonaprodite, I do appreciate you trying to get some rational sense into the spy user, but the last straw for me was the second time he insulted me on this forum, and then proceeded to write a hateful message on another user's wall in relation to the post. This is not a person who is trying to have a productive conversation. I've said all I need to say to spy on his wall. In my opinion, the person sounds out of control, especially his whole "i can call anyone a bitch if i feel like it" rant. I did not block him for damaging my ego, if that's what you think this is about. I blocked him for spewing hateful language and basically not conducting himself (or herself) in a fashion that goes with the standards of the users of this wikia.