Board Thread:Character Discussion/@comment-34563899-20180202235154/@comment-2153169-20180206092657

Aine1989 wrote: Lady Junky wrote:

Aine1989 wrote: No offense but if my husband showed up in a publi place and told me to get back into the kitchen, I'd be fairly humiliated.

Rumple was not even willing to take care of Bae for one freaking night so Milah could have a break (again, I am NOT saying what she did was okay, but Rumple wasn't willing to do the childcare for one single night, because thats "woman's work") Can you stop lying for two seconds please? That's annoying. If you want to defend your pov, at least, use the facts from the show. He NEVER asked her to come back to the kitchen, like you pretend he did.

He said: "Please. You have responsibilities." with a weak voice. That's a fact. She completely abandoned Bae alone at home. That's not even a question of willing to take care of him or not for one night. She left him alone, a 7/8 years old child, while Rumple was absent & away. She left him.

When you want to take a "break", like you say, you DONT let your child alone, you tell your husband that you're leaving for the night, and you're leaving once he came back because you don't let your underage child alone at home. She could have waited for Rumple's return before leaving, but nooooooo, she did not.

Also, "for one freaking night"? That's pretty much established that Milah was going A LOT at this tavern to have fun with Hook and the rest of the people. So no, that's not a "one freaking night" thing.

And, I know you don't care cos you like to defend the domestic abuser, but Milah is the one who publicly humiliated Rumple, not the other around. Again, look at the dialogue, it is there.

No he did not say that, he said "you have responsibilities". Do you really want to split hairs? When a man says "oyu have responsibilities" it is pretty clear that is code for "a woman's place is in the home".

Yes I agree that what Milah did was wrong, but Rumple was still not willing to take care of their child for one night. Which was a much more responsible alternative to "bringing the small child to a dockside tavern and leaving him unsupervised where he could be easily abducted".

Milah was pushed to the point where leaving Bae alone was the only way she could get a break, something all parents are entitled to ​​​​​ Wow xD That's incredible your ability to... I don't know at this point x) Here is the scene: https://youtu.be/vXweaC6bP3M?t=174 Even put you the moment of the scene. That's exactly what Rumple said: "Please. You have responsibilities." with a weak voice.

So really, you need to stop lying when the very basic facts are there x) That was not a code to whatever you try to pretend about it. He was rightfully reminding her that she has responsabilities, because she left Bae alone.

And again, stop the victim blaming. Milah is the one who left Bae alone. I won't repeat what I said in my previous message.

"Could get a break"? CLEARLY, that was NOT a one-time thing. That's very clear, from the scene I just showed you. Using the "something all parents are entitled to" excuse... That's just wrong. Of course, all parents need some time for themselves but in Milah's case, that's clearly something she is doing on a regular basis. She was not having a break, she was running away. By leaving his child alone.

No matter how you try to justify her actions, it is wrong. She could have wait Rumple to come back, but no.