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I should add that I owe you an apology too, Spy 108.49. My initial reply to you was probably written before I'd finished my first morning coffee! I could have phrased things differently!

If I could offer you one piece of advice though, don't start a reply just with the word No. It makes it personal and you come across as being rude and arrogant, it makes people (like me) defensive. As my mother used to say, 'you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar'.

Reading this whole thread with calm eyes I can see that you were right! I'd forgotten that the original plan was to freeze her but I had to defend my corner as I felt personally attacked! Just taking that 'No' out would have made all the difference - I would have read your post in a calm way and probably responded with a 'Doh! yeah ofc you're right!'