Board Thread:Spoilers!/@comment-26443838-20160111023755/@comment-26159109-20160322212633

This is where they got their inspiration from:

Angel: “You shouldn’t have to touch me when I’m like this.”      Buffy: “Oh...I didn’t even notice.”

All I can say is that 1. Buffy did it better. 2. Buffy is 16 years old in that scene, this is a normal thing a 16 year old girl would say, not a 30 year old woman, but OUAT likes to infantilize their characters cause ships drama and angst is what drives this show nowadays.