Thread:Utter solitude/@comment-6175354-20140909001049/@comment-16953943-20140910175041

Nightlily wrote: I'm sorry, but I agree with Utter. While I view the whole "rape culture" comparison (I'm not talking about the idea/concept, but the way it's compared to the show - the people who use this comparison, keep saying things that are factually incorrect) as ridiculuos, I think the subject of rape is something that should not be discussed here. Oh, and keep her age out of this. That's rude.

This is the first thing where you mention both the rape subject and the "facually incorrect opinion" points. Actually, I participated in the discussion because people were stating things that were factually incorrect. Their opinion was based on something that isn't true. Their reasons were false. Pure and simple.

This has nothing to do with the topic making me uncomfortable (it doesn't). It's because this is, as JesseJane points out, an encyclopedia about a television show. Discussions about rape should be held elsewhere.

'''Again you mention it here, and clearly state the subject didn't bother you, and despite saying rape shouldn't be talked about here, your mostly focused, again, on the "factually incorrect opinion" argument. I understand that it's the reason you commented on the topic at the time, but yet you never once mentioned in those post how maybe we shouldn't be talking about rape. Intead, on the topic itself AND here, you chose to focus on the "factually incorrect opinion" argument. Clearly that's what bother's you the most, not the subject of rape. Again, this boils down to the fact you disagree with how other's view your favorite couple, and instead of showing some maturity about it, and moving on, you chose to engage and complain. That's nobody's problem but yours. Nobody else. Just yours.'''

That's not what I said. Do not twist my words; that is completely unacceptable. I wasn't talking about the opinion itself, I was talking about what they were based on. People were saying things that "happened" on the show, but did not actually happen. For example: One person stated that Emma kissed Hook while under the influence of alcohol, but she took one sip, which is impossible to get drunk on. Another example: The blog article that was linked to, says that Emma has kept acting like she couldn't stand Hook, which is not true (everyone who watched Season 3, know that throughout the season, their relationhip has evolved into a close friendship, before they became involved romantically). People are saying things that are untrue.

'''And again, you continue to focus on this "factually incorrect opinion" argument. If the only reason you felt the thread should have been closed was that you felt rape wasn't to be talked about here, you would have focused on it more on the topic itself and here, rather you chose to complain with what boils down to you being upset about how people have interpreted the characters. There was no twisting of your words. '''