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8Rob wrote: It's just like Robin, he thought he has having sex with his wife. It's rape

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Also, I think Graham was also raped in SB because he didn't have his memories, while Regina did. The guy was brainwashed, and saw Regina using his heart to control him in SB in 2x17 With the SB stuff, it’s only seen that she uses his heart in drastic measures, so she could have made his cursed personality like her, or maybe he liked her without cursed provocation. There’s too much unknown. Example, Ivy kissed Henry in 7x04. I’m not going to say that’s assault. Reality warping makes everything complicated.

That’s why there has to be a standard, otherwise, it looks like anything and everything would be cast into wacky situations. Like did Snow cheat on David with Whale? We say no.

What isn’t ambiguous is when there isn’t any reality warping (which isn’t feasible) or memory warping, but working under deception and guises, we can say what’s what, and even coercion (like using job position and authority to coerce situations).