Thread:Lady Junky/@comment-4975807-20160913045228

Lady,

Please understand that some of the things I will be bringing to your attention in this message is meant to be a way to hopefully improve communication and efficiency relations on the wiki. It is not, by any means, a personal attack or a message intended to hurt your feelings or discredit and/or belittle your presence on the wiki.

Your opinions and input on the wiki are a valuable asset to the community, however, I have to be honest with you in that the matter in how you express your views, particularly with your word choice and methodology of arguing your point of view, can come across as somewhat harsh and/or potentially intimidating to others in some of the wiki discussions.

Some examples include:

Referring to Ever's discussion as "useless". I understand there have been some frustration behind this comment, but this is not a very good way to communicate with another user respectfully, and it's inflammatory in a way that it could upset the other person.

Stating that Lily's opinion about the Fairy Godmother's wand and the possibility that it originally belonged to Rumplestiltskin has "zero point there". I understand this is something that is not confirmed within the show, and it was solely Lily's opinion on the matter, but at the same time, your word choice is problematic here as well. Saying it has "zero point there" comes across as unnecessarily harsh and quite dismissive, whether you intended for that or not.

I know you want the best for the wiki, so I hope you are able to reflect and improve from this. However, if this kind of behavior does not stop, disciplinary action will be necessary. 