Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-25926288-20150428200304/@comment-25926288-20150428212244

Utter solitude wrote:

Mesmermann wrote: So people who disappeared in wars and show up many years later. The spouse has often find a new man/woman in their life. Is that adultery? Marian was dead for many years and showed up at a time that Robin was over her and found a new true love. But they haven't time to discuss it, before Ingrid froze Marian, and now was Marian in that state we consider coma and they couldn't save her. And people often move on if that happen. Consider this:

let's say you and i are married. We have a couple kids, even. Lets say you join the military and go missing in a war. After a certain amount of years, you'll be declared legally dead. We're no longer married, youre dead. Im free to remarry. Let's say i do. 15 years after you left, you come back. Legally, i havent done anything wrong, and I'd say morally too, personally. I think Robin is in a similar vein. Of course, it's a whole can of worms, but in my view, he was trying to honor a commitment that he didnt really have to. Agreed! But then he and everyone else treated it as adultery and said in some words that it was fine! It's not really about if it is or isn't but claiming it's a family show and then telling people that adultery is fine doesn't seem right. I'm fine with them saying we all make mistakes and it's bad, but they seemed like they were justifying it.