Thread:Nightlily/@comment-34397172-20181110034552/@comment-91424-20181112050823

TIAB1234 wrote: CoolDudeAl wrote: Nightlily wrote: I've read through the conversation and I think he wrote that because your tone came across as somewhat hostile "(Never you mind. And no point of bring that below, thank you very much.") You are fully entitled to explain and elaborate on your thoughts and opinions, but I think your tone here came across as rather harsh. That is exactly why I wrote that. TIAB is often condesending or hostile in his language to others, and it makes the forums uncomfortable. His victim blaming (like saying Lady Rapunzel and I are doing something wrong) is also not appreciated. CoolDude, whta you wrote was not the truth. I already explained to her what was really going on. You're just giving false accusations here and twisting what I was trying to say. It hurts me. And in case you never read it in another forum, Lady Rapunzel gave a false accusation about a link I posted, by saying I made the page when I didn't. That was very wrong. But's it's already been settled.

TBA, I don't think he was trying to twist anything; as he states above, he thinks that what you wrote ("Never you mind. And no point of bring that below, thank you very much.") came across as hostile and condescending – and I think he has a point; you did come across as both. You say you don't like being misjudged and that's okay, I certainly get that, but unfortunately, it is an unavoidable part of life; people will misunderstand and drop to the wrong conclusions about you, me, him and everyone else from time to time. I'm not going to give him a warning and remove his comments just because he misunderstood and thought you were arguing for the sake of arguing.

However, I have commented on his comment here; that one was definitively unnecessary.