Thread:Nightlily/@comment-5679696-20160927185829/@comment-5679696-20160927202429

I am glad you have decided to bring this up again in an appropriate way, unlike the way you went about it yesterday only to later said you didn't want to talk about it anymore, which is why i removed the message. I will gladly reply to you again.

I did not intend to make you feel like a teenager or a student, or anything other than a fellow user who I feel needs to be reminded that sometimes users make mistakes and it's not because they are doing it on purpose. I sincerely apologize for the way it sounded to you, but the point of my message was honestly to remind you of that.

And please don't think I consider myself to be above that kind of behaviour, because we are all guilty of assuming worse-case scenarios behind the most silly mistakes every now and then. I myself once accused you of lying when you had just simply misremembered something, which was wrong, and that is just one example I can think of right now.

But anyway, if you felt like I was mistreating you, I will try to rewrite my original post for you, since you are asking nicely this time. (and don't take it as I'm child-talking to you, I honestly wouldn't take the time to do this if you had approached me all bossy and "don't-talk-to-me-that-way!!!!")


 * Lily, I know it's easy to misjudge others' reasoning behind their actions across the internet, and that is something that happens to all of us pretty much on a daily basis. I feel the need to remind you that you have quite recently assumed I myself was choosing to ignore you when that was not the case.


 * I suggest that next time, before assuming someone is willingly "choosing to ignore" you (and accusing them of such things on their wall), you take into account that there may be other factors preventing this or that user from reading your message as soon as one or two hours after you've reached out to them.

The intention and meaning of this message and the original one is exactly the same, the difference being I didn't take the time to carefully pick each of my words. The message still stands, and I hope you understand my point this time.