Thread:Nightlily/@comment-5679696-20170410001951/@comment-4839682-20170411232939

I can't believe I have to say this: your interpretation of something; a situation, a statement, whatever, is not the ONLY possibility, nor is it the correct one. You don't get to judge what someone else's reaction to something should or should not be. How many times have you and I gotten into arguments because of something one said that the other misread?

Lily thought Lady was being sarcastic, so she warned her, fairly respectfully. You have every right to respond to that, to defend Lady, but you instead attacked Lily, claiming there's some conspiracy of prejudice going on, and trying to shut down the conversation without letting her defend herself. Lily wasn't harassing Lady, and if Lady had responded and said she wasn't being sarcastic in that comment, Lily would have apologized for the misunderstanding. If anyone is being harassed, it's Lily, by you.

I think all of us, Lily, Lady, you, me, need to explore better ways to express ourselves so thid kind of thing doesn't happen in the future. And I think you need to get your temper under control. Throwing insults around, accusing people of stuff, instigating fightd, trying to prevent them from defending themselves... it's not acceptable.