Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-6905051-20131203105732/@comment-24927476-20140520224030

Utter solitude wrote:

Harryronhermione17 wrote:

Not easy if you can't have kids, or you want to stay a virgin till marriage (the latter is something I can relate to), or both. You missed/ignored my point entirely... XD Which was, to say one loves an adopted child "almost as much" as a biological, or that adoption is "just filling out paperwork" is waaaaay off base. Generally, one can find oneself pregnant/having gotten a girl pregnant much easier than adopting a child. (does that apply to everyone? Of course not, but that's true with everything) Yes, but most people don't want to have babies with a stranger. And carrying a kid for 9 months is pretty hard/uncomfortable. For fathers, yeah, but the mother has to carry the child.