Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-4962906-20151003135616/@comment-4962906-20151007054924

CTrent29 wrote: Just because one is evil, does not make him or her a bad parent. There are a lot of "good" people in the world who have proven to be bad parents.

Just because you're willing to hurt someone else's child or children, doesn't automatically mean you're willing to harm your own child.

People really need to realize that morality is not that simple. Many point out Regina emotionally sandbagging Henry in Season 1 to maintain the curse and keep him away from Emma. Yet, people rarely comment on Emma's own willingness to sandbag Henry in late Season 3 in order to ensure his amnesia. She did this so that she could return to New York with him and resume their fantasy life.

Both women exploited Henry for their own selfish desires. But does this make them all around bad mothers? What about Henry? He had no qualms about emotionally manipulating Regina in order to get inside her vault and find a way to get Emma and Snow back to Storybrooke. He also was more than willing to exploit his grandfather's love for Neal in order to learn something about the Book or the Author on behalf of Regina. Does this make him a bad kid? A bad grandson?

Or all three simply capable of making bad mistakes, even to those whom they love when their emotions get the best of them?

Which brings me to Zelena. . . I'm not going to judge her as a bad parent, simply because she's evil. I don't know what kind of parent she'll turn out to be. But I refuse to jump to conclusions about her, based upon some one-note morality. ''Just because you're willing to hurt someone else's child or children, doesn't automatically mean you're willing to harm your own child." quote you

this i dun agree