Thread:Applegirl/@comment-6302057-20141122102004/@comment-4975807-20141205192623

For the sake of resolving underlying conflict between users, I have reopened this thread. At the time of my last post on this discussion, I had assumed (with proper explanation of why the two wikis are 'not rivals), that the topic would naturally be concluded due to clarification about the two wikis. However, I am leaving this thread open so to talk about whatever conflicts the parties (myself, Lady Junky, NickM98, etc) involved are still dealing with due to the this particular message wall discussion.

Some days after, NickM98 closed the "Rival OUAT wiki" thread, and he wrote his reason for doing so as acceptance of the situation that the two wikis are not rivals. However,  I was not aware Lady was still upset at NickM98's accusations towards her after seeing the conflict on this message wall post: http://onceuponatime.wikia.com/wiki/Thread:185538. Upon further private discussion with Lady, I have concluded that this issue is definitely not finished with, and I would like to give everyone involved a chance here to work out the conflict.

Apologies for the long post, but I wanted to explain my intent when I responded for the first time here:  http://onceuponatime.wikia.com/wiki/Thread:185538. At first, I could not understand why Lady was bringing up the rival OUAT wiki issue again and was angry at NickM98 for his accusations against her. Again, I assumed the problem was resolved when the rival OUAT wiki thread was closed and there was nothing more to discuss on the issue, so that's what prompted me to tell Lady to stop bringing up the issue and move on from the past.

If you're looking at that thread now, you'll see I added a second message some hours later after some private discussion with Lady about it, which changed my opinion on the situation itself, and I realized my first post response was not an accurate depiction of a solution to the problem. To Lady in particular, I feel this open thread is a necessary means for you to help NickM98 understand what you are feeling and what can be done so we can resolve the conflict. I know you already told me privately what would make it better, but it's not enough that only I know, and NickM98 needs understanding as well.